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Reader
We're now well into the second quarter of 2025. Since I set my intention to get out and get uncomfortable at the beginning of this year, I’ve had some personal and professional encounters. Some are good, and some are less than ideal. Reflecting on those interactions reminded me of a poem by Brian A. “Drew” Chalker titled Reason, Season, or A Lifetime.
Every person who crosses our path, whether for a day or a decade, plays a positive or a negative role; they all contribute to shaping who we are.
The poem starts with:
People always come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
But how can you figure out which one it is? I found that it’s the hardest and might be the most painful part. It’s because when you do figure that out (and it’s not a lifetime relationship), you also start the grief process simultaneously because a loss has either already happened or is going to happen.
You see, I fixated on the grief of endings. Now, I see the poem as a love letter to impermanence—and a reminder that every person who crosses our path leaves us with a gift, even if it takes years to unwrap. That's exactly what I did in my latest blog post, unwrapping.
- ✅ I broke down each category–reason relationship, season relationship, and lifetime relationship.
- 🔖 I shared my interpretation of what the poem says.
- 📝 I weaved in my messy (and hopeful) stories to explore how to find gratitude in all of them with a holistic lens.
- 📓 I included journal prompts for you to reflect on your own relationships.
- 🙏 At the end, there's also a holistic exercise for you to honor every connection.
Get yourself a cup of coffee or tea, and buckle up because this is a mix of turbulence and serenity.
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Reason, Season, or A Lifetime
What every relationship teaches us about growth and gratitude
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Every bitter relationship can lead to sweet endings if we choose to see it from a place full of warmth and gratitude. Similarly, every bitter foods can supercharge our health.
They work wonders for your gut, promoting good bacteria and improving digestion. But that's not all…
Bitter foods can also be your secret weapon for weight management. They can help you shed those extra pounds. Need proof? I've complied a complete PDF guide. It's yours to download for free.
Bitter Foods: Your Secret to a Healthier Life
Did you know that bitter foods can help to improve your gut health and weight loss?
According to a study published in the journal 'Nature,' people who ate more bitter foods had a lower body mass index (BMI) and increased longevity than those who consumed fewer bitter foods.
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You learned the benefits, now taste them! Ready to put your knowledge into action? 💪 Here are 4 easy (and tasty!) 5-ingredient salad recipes that feature the power of bitter foods.
That's a wrap for today's newsletter. I hope you enjoy reading it.
Have a wonderful Easter holiday and I'll talk to you soon.
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With love ❤️ (and a little help from my soul's anchor),
P.S. Once you read my article, Reason, Season, or A Lifetime, you might realize a “reason” person inspired a lifetime lesson, or a “season” friend feels like family years later. The point isn’t to categorize but to ask:
“What did this person teach me about myself? What did this relationship teach me about resilience, joy, or my own heart?”
Share in the comments at the end of the article. Your story might be someone else’s nudge to reframe their relationships.
P.P.S. If you think a friend or a family member might benefit from this newsletter, please forward this email to them.
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Disclaimer: This newsletter (MBSN) is intended as an informational guide and is not meant to treat, diagnose, or prescribe. If you have any medical condition, physical condition, or symptoms, always consult a qualified physician or appropriate health care professional. The writer/publisher does not accept any responsibility for your health or how you choose to use the information contained in this newsletter.
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