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🌸 How My Orchid Taught Me About Thriving


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Hi Reader,

Three years ago, a dear friend gifted me an orchid as a housewarming present. It was breathtaking—creamy white blooms, glossy leaves, the kind of plant that whispers, “I’m thriving, and so will you in this new home!”

But when the flowers inevitably wilted, I became the proud owner of a very expensive stick in a pot.

For two years, I kept it alive (go me!), but no matter how much (or how little) I watered it or whispered sweet nothings, it refused to bloom. Sound familiar? Maybe you’ve felt like that orchid—doing the bare minimum to survive, but not quite thriving.

Turns out, I’m not alone. Here’s the thing: orchids are one of the most gifted plants in the world—and also one of the most misunderstood. We buy them (or receive them) at their peak, dazzled by their blooms, but few of us know how to care for them long-term. Most end up in the compost bin after the flowers fade.

When I sheepishly confessed my orchid struggles to the friend who gifted it to me, she sighed knowingly. “Orchids are tricky, aren’t they? Most people don’t realize they’re not meant to live in pots forever. Mine cling to trees in the garden—they pull nutrients from the bark and thrive in the humidity. It’s about the whole environment, not just water.”

Her words stuck with me. We expect orchids to bloom in conditions that are nothing like their natural habitat—and then blame ourselves when they don’t. Sound familiar? How often do we do the same with our own health?

Your Gut: The Overlooked “Garden” Inside You

My friend’s lush island garden got me thinking about another ecosystem: your gut microbiome. Imagine it as a bustling internal rainforest:

  • It craves diversity: Just as a garden thrives with flowers, herbs, and pollinators, your gut needs a mix of “good” bacteria to digest food, fight inflammation, and even regulate your mood.
  • It’s self-sustaining (when fed properly): Load it with fiber, fermented foods, and prebiotics, and it’ll reward you with energy and resilience. Starve it with processed meals or stress, and weeds (hello, sugar cravings!) take over.
  • It’s interconnected: Your gut “talks” to your brain (ever felt nauseous before a big meeting?), supports your immune system, and even influences how you absorb nutrients.

But here’s the kicker: You can’t force a rainforest to grow in a concrete jungle. Just like my apartment orchid, your body needs the right environment to truly flourish.

Why Surviving Isn’t Thriving (for Orchids and Humans)

After my friend’s advice, I marched to a flower shop and asked, “What am I missing?!” The answer? Chronic undernourishment. I’d given my orchid water and light, but no food. No wonder it was stuck in survival mode! So I immediately bought flower food–multi-purpose organic gardening liquid to start adding nutrition to it.

Humans aren’t so different. We might “get by” on coffee, takeout, and restless sleep, but thriving requires:

  1. Real Nutrition
    • Not just calories, but vibrant, nutrient-dense foods: leafy greens, colorful veggies, and proteins that don’t come in a drive-thru bag.
    • Hydration that’s more than a side of espresso.
  2. A Supportive Environment
    • Physical: Clean air, movement, sunlight (yes, even in the city—get that 10-minute walk!).
    • Emotional: Stress management, rest, and relationships that refill your cup.
  3. Patience
    • My orchid took a year to bloom after I started feeding it nutritiously. Health isn’t a sprint—it’s a lifelong journey, and the journey is the reward.

Your First Step Toward Thriving

You don’t need a tropical garden to start nurturing your ecosystem. Here’re some simple steps you can take to begin today:

  1. Feed Your “Flower Food”: Add one extra handful of leafy greens or/and a side of kimchi to your next meal. (Your gut microbes will throw a party. 🎉)
  2. Create a Mini “Rainforest” Moment: Open a window for fresh air, light a calming candle, or take 5 deep breaths. Small environments matter. Stress reduction techniques like these can help promote harmony between your central (brain) and enteric (gut) nervous systems.
  3. Check Your “Roots”: Ask yourself: What’s one tiny habit I can tweak this week to feel more nourished? (Sleep 15 minutes earlier? Swap soda for sparkling water? You decide!)
  4. Partner with Your “Gardeners” (aka Meds): Medications like antibiotics or NSAIDs? Think of them as well-meaning landscapers—they clear the weeds but can trample your flowers. Pro tip: If you’re prescribed antibiotics, ask your doctor about pairing them with probiotics to protect your gut’s “good bugs.” A little prep goes a long way in avoiding the gut drama.
  5. Shake Your Stems (Yes, You!): Orchids love a gentle breeze—you love a gentle walk. Dance while microwaving leftovers, stretch like a cat waking from a nap, or march in place during Zoom calls. Motion = life.

Progress, not perfection. Even my orchid needed time to rebuild its strength. You’ve got this.

With love and a little chlorophyll magic 🪄

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P.P.S. My orchid? She has been blooming and brightening up my apartment with her three (not six as before but I'll take it!) beautiful flowers since last week. See the pic below. Let’s get you there too. → Claim Your Free 1:1 Session (If you don't see a time slot that works for you, feel free to hit reply and we'll work it out.)

Disclaimer: This newsletter (MBSN) is intended as an informational guide and is not meant to treat, diagnose, or prescribe. If you have any medical condition, physical condition, or symptoms, always consult a qualified physician or appropriate health care professional. The writer/publisher does not accept any responsibility for your health or how you choose to use the information contained in this newsletter.

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Hi, my name is Sharon Chen, and I'm an Integrative Nutrition Health Coach specialized in using food to help you heal and nourish for a thriving life. I believe you are the sage of your own life. My role is to gently nudge you to tap into that intuition and wisdom you’re born with from my life experiences and our shared experiences on earth. I invite you to join my Mind Body Sage Newsletter, a free newsletter to help you find foods that feed your body, mind, and spirit.

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